One of my favorite human seniors is a vibrant, entergetic 86 years old. Just before Christmas, she contacted me to say that she was all set to buy a puppy & what did I think? Would I be upset?
I encouraged her to ask her primary care physican what he thought about the idea. His response was no to a puppy but yes to a dog or a cat. She asked me to find her a dog. Only if she arranged for the necessary care to be in place in the event she became incapicated or died. She said her family would step up. I asked that she get it in writing and ensure enough money was in place to pay the expenses. I didn't want to be part of another animal being dropped off at the shelter.
Her family's response? No.
Of course she's upset.
I don't know how this is going to end as the saga is still going on. We're exploring options.
But I have learned.
As I become more aware of my own finitity, I realize I have a responsibility to those I leave behind & possibly alone. I have begun the work of putting my life in order. I have asked a daughter if she is willing to take on the responsibilities of my 3 seniors; cat, dog, & fish. Fortunately, she feels she can. She agreed because she can see them in her life for the next 1 to 5 years. After that time & if I am still around, I will have another dog or a cat. They'll be adopted seniors from a foster care program and chosen with the idea that I will outlive them. I will make sure there are funds to cover for their care by another or that they're set to be readmitted into the same foster care program in the event of my not being able to care for them.
Whether you're 55 or older, an adult child considering a pet for your senior parent..., consider a senior pet. Senior Pets have better manners, a great sense of humor, and are appreciative of the ordinary & routine nature of life.
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